Thursday 29 September 2016

Get Your Boyfriend Back - The Right Way to the Perfect Reconciliation



When you've been dumped out of the blue by the guy you know is Mr. Right, the one thing you want more than anything else in the world is to get your boyfriend back.

Unfortunately, the logistics of exactly how to do that are a little harder to lock down than you expect. But, there is a bit of a silver lining to consider.


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In most situations, you still have a little bit of time on your hands to work on winning him back. That's right. 

All is not lost -- at least not yet.
You still have a chance to get your boyfriend back. Here's what you need to do.

Hold Your Head Up High

Most women in your situation lock themselves up for days or weeks on end. They cut themselves off from the world and hide.

Don't let this happen to you. You broke up. It wasn't your choice. You weren't the bad guy (well, GIRL).  You have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

If you lock yourself away you're letting him think you're crying your heart out over him. Even if you are doing more than your fair share of crying, you don't want HIM to know. 


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Going out and rejoining the world with your head high gives him pause. It makes him wonder why you aren't crying in corner.
It forces HIM to turn his thoughts to YOU! This is a very good thing as far as getting him back goes.

Invest in Yourself

Now is a great time to invest in YOU! A breakup is a big change in your life. While it may not be the type of change you were hoping for or one you can get excited about, change is not, at its core a bad thing.
What kind of changes should you make? You want to focus on changes that are improvements -- changes that make you FEEL better. Empowering changes. Confidence-boosting changes.

1) Makeover
2) Wardrobe update
3) New hairstyle
4) Education
5) Employment
6) Career/Personal coaching
7) Self-help books and recordings
8) Dietary and nutrition changes
9) Fitness and health changes

While it may seem that these changes are all about him, they're really all about you. If you want to get HIM back, you must approach the process from a position of power.

You can't return to him on your knees begging for a second chance. If you still want to get your boyfriend back after you've done these things then you walk in the door, with your head held high, and fully understanding that you are worth a second chance.


Once you fully understand your contribution to the relationship and the value you add to his life, he'll have no choice but to recognize it too. If he doesn't, then he never really deserved you in the first place.


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How to Repair a Broken Relationship



Love is an awesome feeling shared by two people. However this romantic feeling brings with it some ups and downs that if not carefully handled, can lead to a break up.
Women are very different from men. This means that the couple needs to spend some time to study and discover what the other partner’s needs are. When a couple is faced with a break up, it of course takes a lot to come to terms with the situation. 



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However, true love always finds its way home. If you two are truly meant to be, then you shall eventually end up together and rekindle the love. When it comes to this, you need to learn tips on how to repair a broken relationship as you realize the magic of making up. 

1. Leave the Past Where it Belongs

During the time you spent apart, you probably realized just how difficult it is to live without the other person. For true love, the second chance comes stronger than the first time.
If this is to be then you definitely have to forgive and forget your partner’s past mistakes. Harboring contempt and anger towards them will make you a bitter person and poison your relationship. 

Reminding them over and over of their mistakes hinders them from moving forward. Let go of the past, they probably have learned their lesson and regret every single one of them. Let go and let him love you like you deserve.

2. Identify the Problem Areas
Truth of the matter is that your relationship got shaken the first time due to one or several problems. If you want to give your love a good survival chance then you have to deal with the root cause of the problem head on. 

Identify the problem and aim at resolving the issues together as a couple. This calls for a lot of sacrifice; compromise, unselfishness and understanding. If you find yourself going round in circles, you can invite a third party to give unbiased advice.
It would also be a good idea to find ways to prevent the problem from arising in the future. This puts a solid seal of security over your rekindled relationship hence making it even better.

3. Give the Relationship 100%; Meet your Partner Half Way
The beauty of rekindled love is the security and comfort derived from knowing that it flew away and still found its way back to you.

This means that your partner was free to look around elsewhere but still chose you; all over again. You need to make it last this time and the best way to do that is to give it 100%. Meet your partner half way. Play your part and your partner will too. A common mistake individuals make is to only give half and expect their partners to give their all. 



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The magic of making up is only realized when you apply these three tips to your rekindled love life. Take note of all the mistakes that sabotaged your love and collectively work on preventing them as a couple.
Remember, love is a two person game. As long as you are both willingly to make it work, then it will be stronger than ever.

 
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