When you've been dumped out of
the blue by the guy you know is Mr. Right, the one thing you want more than
anything else in the world is to get your boyfriend back.
Unfortunately, the logistics of
exactly how to do that are a little harder to lock down than you expect. But,
there is a bit of a silver lining to consider.
In most situations, you still
have a little bit of time on your hands to work on winning him back. That's
right.
All is not lost -- at least not yet.
You still have a chance to get
your boyfriend back. Here's what you need to do.
Hold Your Head Up High
Most women in your situation lock
themselves up for days or weeks on end. They cut themselves off from the world
and hide.
Don't let this happen to you. You
broke up. It wasn't your choice. You weren't the bad guy (well, GIRL). You have NOTHING to be ashamed of.
If you lock yourself away you're
letting him think you're crying your heart out over him. Even if you are doing
more than your fair share of crying, you don't want HIM to know.
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Going out and rejoining the world
with your head high gives him pause. It makes him wonder why you aren't crying
in corner.
It forces HIM to turn his
thoughts to YOU! This is a very good thing as far as getting him back goes.
Invest in Yourself
Now is a great time to invest in
YOU! A breakup is a big change in your life. While it may not be the type of
change you were hoping for or one you can get excited about, change is not, at
its core a bad thing.
What kind of changes should you
make? You want to focus on changes that are improvements -- changes that make
you FEEL better. Empowering changes. Confidence-boosting changes.
1) Makeover
2) Wardrobe update
3) New hairstyle
4) Education
5) Employment
6) Career/Personal coaching
7) Self-help books and recordings
8) Dietary and nutrition changes
9) Fitness and health changes
While it may seem that these
changes are all about him, they're really all about you. If you want to get HIM
back, you must approach the process from a position of power.
You can't return to him on your
knees begging for a second chance. If you still want to get your boyfriend back
after you've done these things then you walk in the door, with your head held
high, and fully understanding that you are worth a second chance.
Once you fully understand your
contribution to the relationship and the value you add to his life, he'll have
no choice but to recognize it too. If he doesn't, then he never really deserved
you in the first place.
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