There are many reasons why your
romance will never measure up to those on the big screen. If you're constantly
comparing your relationship, then you'll never be satisfied and both of you
will end up being hurt in the long run. You might be curious about why it's
such a bad thing to compare your relationship to those "picture
perfect" relationships in Hollywood. Here are a few good reasons why your
relationship will never measure up to theirs and why that's a good thing.
Hollywood Films have Professional
Script Writers
More importantly, these
scriptwriters spend hours agonizing over the right words and sequence of events
to create a plausible conversation. And they have control of all sides of the
conversation. In real world relationships, you only get control of what comes
out of your own mouth and that's tenuous at best in the heat of the moment.
You Don’t Get To Start The Scene
Over When it Doesn't Play Out Right
The more heated the discussion
becomes, the less control you seem to have over the words coming out of your
mouth. That doesn't happen in Hollywood. The director just cuts the scene and
takes a break when things aren't flowing the right way. You don't get an
opportunity to "un-ring" bells in real life. Once it's come out of
your mouth, it's there. In all its glory and for the one person who means the
most in the world to hear.
The Actors Put Their Characters To Bed, Alone, Each Night
After a long day of practice,
script reading, and careful staging or choreography, the actors leave their
characters behind and return to their own lives. That's not a luxury you have
when you're comparing your relationship to those on the Silver Screen. You're
comparing something real -- your own relationship -- to something that's make
believe and temporary at best.
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Actors in the movies don't have
to decide who pulls the midnight shift for diaper duty. They don't have to
fight over who washes dishes or even who gets control of the remote control for
the evening or any of the other petty worries that cause discontentment in
modern relationships.
At the end of the day, everything
in Hollywood is the work of an entire team of people working towards one common
goal. Hair is always picture perfect; makeup is just right, music, mood
lighting, and script in place to produce a little magic on the screen. These
things, while enchanting in pictures, fall flat and just shy of satisfying in
real life. In the end, you'd grow tired of the façade and run off in search of
the real deal or relationship gold. That's why it's better to skip out on the
perfect front Hollywood presents and go for something a little heartier in your
own relationships instead.
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